I lived with a a narcissist for 15 years. In the beginning I didn't realise who, or what, I was dealing with, and as a result I tried everything in my power to try and "fix" him, or "us".
It was only when I had exhausted every possible way that I knew to change him, that I was forced to take stock and realise that it wasn't up to me alone. There are 2 people in a relationship, and they both need to make it work.
I have discovered that most anxiety, stress, depression and feelings of low self-worth have something in common, and that is that there is a toxic person involved.
More and more I am finding that people who are blocked, undermined, undervalued, are under the influence of someone who is stealing their energy, or deliberately causing trauma.
I will be doing a video series on narcissism, so that you can learn what their characteristics are, how they affect your life, how to deal with them, and why you attracted them in the first place.
I wish that I had known this a long time ago, because it would have saved me years of doubt and heartache, besides the abuse that I allowed myself to endure.
In this video, I will explain to you what I term 'narcissism", briefly how they function, and why they can't, and shouldn't, be fixed.