They say that if you don't have plans for your life, then someone else will.
I think one of the main reasons that people are unhappy is because they haven't got any goals to work towards. The people who know where they are going to be, or what they want to be when they grow up are very fortunate.
If you don't know what you want, then you will be like a leaf blowing in the wind. It also means that you will allow your life to be swayed by someone else who does have plans for you.
It's critical that you sit yourself down and decide what you want from life, even if it's something small, so that you can take ownership.
In this video I explain how codependency is often a result of not knowing what you want and taking responsibility for your life.
Click on the video below to watch:)