They say that if you don't have plans for your life, then someone else will.
I think one of the main reasons that people are unhappy is because they haven't got any goals to work towards. The people who know where they are going to be, or what they want to be when they grow up are very fortunate.
If you don't know what you want, then you will be like a leaf blowing in the wind. It also means that you will allow your life to be swayed by someone else who does have plans for you.
It's critical that you sit yourself down and decide what you want from life, even if it's something small, so that you can take ownership.
In this video I explain how codependency is often a result of not knowing what you want and taking responsibility for your life.
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We often blame our partner for the miserable relationship that we have. The truth is you are unhappy because you have put your happiness in the other person's hands.
When you believe that the other person fulfills your needs and makes you complete, then you are setting yourself up for failure. People are only a mirror for what is lacking in your life and are there to show you where you need to fulfill yourself.
When you take full responsibility for your needs, your life will be balanced and centred.
Watch my video below to understand how codependency works, and what you need to do to heal your relationship.
I have often had people ask me whether a narcissist feels guilt.
Their behaviour can be confusing, especially when they show emotion at times and no emotion at other times.
This is a very short video that will answer this question quickly and simply, but also to help you ask a better question.
Click on the video below to find out.