For years I was the sole breadwinner, thinking that one day my husband would return the favour. I sometimes worked 16 hour days, did back-breaking work, and didn't even get a day's maternity leave when my son was born. I worked 7 days a week, and if I complained about being tired, I was told, "You like working".
As an empath, you believe that when you give, the other person will reciprocate and give back to you. However, that doesn't work in the world of narcissists.
Their job is to take, and your job is to give, that's how it works. Giving to a narcissist is a bottomless pit.
Watch my video to find out how you can stop giving your love and energy to someone who will keep draining it from you, and how you can start giving to yourself.
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They say that opposites attract. And they are right. Except when it comes to love, most of us are looking for our match, who we think is just like us. The truth is that we attract what we feel like we are missing in our own lives, or in other words, what we deny about ourselves.
In this video I share with you the two personality extremes: narcissists and empaths, and why they find each other. Enjoy!
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I lived with a a narcissist for 15 years. In the beginning I didn't realise who, or what, I was dealing with, and as a result I tried everything in my power to try and "fix" him, or "us".
It was only when I had exhausted every possible way that I knew to change him, that I was forced to take stock and realise that it wasn't up to me alone. There are 2 people in a relationship, and they both need to make it work.
I have discovered that most anxiety, stress, depression and feelings of low self-worth have something in common, and that is that there is a toxic person involved.
More and more I am finding that people who are blocked, undermined, undervalued, are under the influence of someone who is stealing their energy, or deliberately causing trauma.
I will be doing a video series on narcissism, so that you can learn what their characteristics are, how they affect your life, how to deal with them, and why you attracted them in the first place.
I wish that I had known this a long time ago, because it would have saved me years of doubt and heartache, besides the abuse that I allowed myself to endure.
In this video, I will explain to you what I term 'narcissism", briefly how they function, and why they can't, and shouldn't, be fixed.
We are in a world with billions of people around us, yet more and more people are lonely.
The more crowded a place becomes, the more people withdraw from the noise.
This is because the real connection is missing. Social media is drawn to hype, people are posting their best moments, leading you to believe that your life is empty compared to theirs.
We are all souls inhabiting a physical body. The main reason why you struggle with anxiety is because you have lost your soul connection, and you are relying on your mind, or your brain (which we discussed in the previous video), which is faulty, to give you solace or solutions.
In this fourth video I explain how you can shift your mind from anxiety to possibility.
When you get out of your memory, you allow yourself to open up to opportunity and guidance. Doing this requires you to first acknowledge your physicality, so that you can connect to your soul.
Click on the video below to listen to how to do that.
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