I used to believe that if I always was good and helpful that I would get to where I wanted to be in life. But no matter how hard I worked, how nice I was, I just never seemed to get ahead.
I have studied, worked hard, done the right things, but still something nagged inside me. Still I was feeling an empty sense that something was wrong. No matter how my life looked on the outside, I wasn't content.
Even though I achieved great success in my business, my relationships were a dismal failure. I was stuck in a pattern of narcissistic relationships, ranging from my husband to business partners and 'friends'.
I was always thinking that if I fixed this or changed that, the situation would improve, but all that happened is that I worked harder, did more, and got the same result.
I am the eternal optimist, and so I kept looking for answers and applying what I learnt. Some of it worked, some worked slightly, but I never found the key. I wished that someone would have sat me down in life and been a mentor for me.
What I discovered is that if you don't believe that you are deserving, then no matter how hard you work or how much you do for someone, you will never get what you are looking for. The beliefs that you have about who you are and what you are worth will affect every area of your life, and only you can change that.
If you want to change your life, then you need to change the beliefs you have about yourself. It is all internal. No matter what is going on in your outer world, if you don't change your negative beliefs you will just keep struggling upstream.
My life's mission is to educate, through teaching, coaching and guiding people experientially through their internal worlds to help people #HEAL their voids.
My aim is to reach as many people as I possibly can so that they can spread the word to others.
Life is not meant to be suffering, we are meant to have abundance, and it is within everyone's reach.
There are stories that I share about myself in my blog, if you want to read more..